As you probably realized (due to our over-the-top blog anniversary celebration a couple weeks ago) we’ve been blogging for over a year here at Plaster & Disaster! We’ve published 163 posts, each one a little gem of inspiration and wit, honed, polished, and sent out into the world to enrich your lives… right?
Not so much. We’ve shared a lot here that we’re proud of, but we can’t honestly look back at the past year and claim that we’re happy with everything we’ve done. We’re committed to being open and honest about our DIY disasters, so we feel we should be open and honest about our blogging disasters, as well — as uncomfortable as that may be.
So here are a few posts that, looking back on the past year, we regret, or at least would do differently.
Naomi’s Blog Disasters
One of the early lessons I learned was that not everything I make is worthy of being on the blog. Quelle horreur! For one of my first posts, I shared a makeover of two IKEA RIBBA frames that I fixed up as a gift for my parents.
The angle of that photo makes me cringe. (And what’s with the aggressive text all over it, anyway?) But the sad thing is that I sort of like this project – or at least the idea behind it, of creating pattern by taping off areas and applying a glossy polycrylic over flat paint. However, the result wasn’t as extreme as I was hoping it would be, and I was not nearly a skilled enough photographer to capture the variation in finishes that I did get.
But it’s not the project or photos that I regret, it’s sharing it on the blog as if it was just the coolest thing and something that I’d be doing again. It was the second week of the blog, and I wasn’t comfortable enough to do that yet! I probably wouldn’t share this project now, and if I did I’d be talking about what went wrong or what I’d be doing differently next time
Another post I have serious regret over is my tutorial about how I use Serif DrawPlus for blogging. This was written in August, after I had been blogging for over 6 months, so I really should have known better. But, man, that post was boring.
I knew it, too. I was bored writing it. The sad thing is that this subject really shouldn’t have been boring. The Starter Edition of Serif DrawPlus is a great (and free) tool that I use for pretty much every single post, and also to make some of the incredibly witty and humorous images that we entertain you with here on the blog:
But the issue with the post was that I got too caught up in explaining how to do the simple things (which most tech-savvy people could probably figure out for themselves) and didn’t get to explain how to do the cool things that people might actually be interested in. I said I would do a follow-up to share the interesting parts (and still might) but really just got so bored with the whole thing I was happy to put it behind me.
Sage’s Blog Disasters
Now that Naomi has bared her soul, I guess it’s time for me to admit that EVERYTHING I DO IS PERFECT AND I HAVE NO REGRETS. I’ll be back on Wednesday to share yet another perfect post.
Just kidding! Not about the Wednesday part, if you like mid-century furniture, copious disasters, and 1,800-word posts, then I think you’ll enjoy what I have in store for you Wednesday. But the truth is, I do have some posts I regret, so I guess I should quit stalling and spill.
The first I shared in our first month blogging, and it was about my wedding. Let me be clear: I have zero regrets about my wedding. It was awesome, and I love being married. But I do regret sharing a really long (1,600 words) personal post in our very first month about something totally untimely.
This is definitely a place where we share about ourselves and our lives, but looking back it feels totally random that I would share something so long about a non-DIY topic so early in the blog. I wish I had shared it later in the year (maybe on my anniversary in June? what a concept!) when our readers had already started to get to know us a little better. As it is, the only people really able to appreciate the post would have been friends and family who are also readers, and chances are those people were actually at the wedding. For anyone who didn’t know us and was trying to figure out what this new blog was all about, I think it probably felt strange.
Another post I don’t love in retrospect was my post in September about some big life changes and a small DIY project. I think I felt like I couldn’t just devote a whole post to the topic of getting a new job (which meant that Naomi and I no longer worked together), so I tried to smoosh it in with a DIY project and some ramblings about how I was cleaning out my closet. I think either topic could have been interesting in its own right (though closet clean-outs are everywhere in blogland at this point), but putting them together created a hybrid post that felt kind of strange.
I think what both these regrets show is that we’re still working to find the right balance between substantive projects, small updates, and personal posts. We post three times a week, and we want a lot of those to feel like meaty and/or entertaining projects to you. Otherwise, what are we really adding to the blogosphere? BUT, we also know that feeling a personal connection is what we love most in the blogs we read, and it can also be nice to feel like bloggers are real humans who do small and mundane projects sometimes in addition to the big room makeovers. We’re still figuring out how to do that best (and would love any feedback you have about what you’d like to see less and more of!), but hopefully we’ll keep getting better at it as we embark on this second year.
Joint Blog Disaster
Although we feel that joint posts are some of our strongest, we’re not immune to messing up when we’re working together, either! We could point to the time that we actually made a craft project using cutlery, as we did in our roundup of the most disastrous disasters in 2015, but even though you never win when using silverware to decorate your house, we actually think that the post itself was pretty funny.
However, one joint project that we definitely regret was our dual makeovers of thrift store cane chairs.
We’re pretty into the dual makeover idea (so much so that we did them for our first post and as part of our blog anniversary) but we’ve sometimes had trouble finding matching things to fix up that we’re both excited about. In this case, neither of us were that into our chairs or our projects, and we shouldn’t have shared them on the blog as if we were. The post isn’t a great read because its pretty obvious that the enthusiasm just isn’t there.
Since this post was written, Sage has already thrown out her chair, and Naomi fully intends to do the same with hers as soon as she gets around to not using it as a place to pile cloths. Not our best work!
Ick. That was uncomfortable. There is something freeing about sharing craft and DIY disasters on the internet for people to learn from our mistakes, but sharing on the blog about things we don’t like that we did on the blog isn’t quite as fun.
We’ve definitely learned a lot in our first year, nuanced lessons like “don’t pretend that a project is good when it isn’t” and “don’t be so boring.” Here’s to not repeating those mistakes in year 2!
(Sharing at Tip Me Tuesday and Two Uses Tuesday)
chris aka monkey says
oh no, i thought you two were perfect …. not lmao, at 66 if i can give any advice is to just keep putting one foot in front of the other and look at life as a learning experience, not everyone is perfect like me xx
Naomi says
Sorry to shatter the illusion, Chris!
JHager says
I actually loved Sage’s chair. Hopefully she donated it and someone fell in love. I’d redo Naomi’s chair though, it seemed that, given how beautiful her other projects have been, her style could make it gorgeous.
Naomi says
Yes, that was a bust, wasn’t it! I liked the style of the chair, but it was in bad shape and I just couldn’t figure out how to turn it around. Bummer. Here’s where I’d like to tell you all about how horrific Sage’s chair was in person… but honestly it would be great for someone who likes that style. Hopefully it found a good home!
Mary Anne in Kentucky says
Naomi, I was so bored with the Serif Drawplus post (because it’s something I would never never use) that I didn’t realize you were bored writing it!
Sage, I don’t think the wedding post was a mistake at all, even if it didn’t have much of a DIY angle. It’s an early post where your personality came through very clearly, and made your subsequent writing more engaging.
The dual chairs post: I failed to detect any excess or lack of enthusiasm because as a dedicated Rescuer of Chairs (it’s a calling) I was busy going “Oh! I could do that with the next chair I find on the side of the road.”
Sage says
Thanks Mary Ann, it’s so helpful to hear your perspective on these posts! We’re both incurable chair-rescuers too, which I think is one reason we’re bummed we posted about projects we didn’t love. But we’re always learning, and it’s great to hear that some things were more engaging for readers than maybe we thought! That’s one reason we love comments so much — it’s helps us know if things are resonating!
MJ says
If I ever do have a blog of my own (about 156 on my to-do list) that Serif thingy post might just be perfect–written for people who have never blogged before and are practically computer illiterate—–just-how-do-i-locate-that-downloads-folder? illiterate.
You just never know how you might be an angel unaware for some reader. If not now, maybe later…..
Keep on keeping on……
MJ
Naomi says
Thanks, MJ! That is encouraging to hear. Hopefully it will be helpful to someone!